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Matthew Herrera, AMFT
Practical, honest writing on OCD, anxiety, trauma, relationships, and mental health — from a Pasadena therapist who specializes in helping self-aware, high-achieving teens and adults move through what's keeping them stuck.
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Veteran Mental Health: Why Support Matters Beyond the Fourth of July
Veterans Mental Health: Reflections on PTSD, Trauma, and Support After the Fourth of July Reflecting on Veterans' Mental Health After the Fourth of July This past Fourth of July weekend, I found myself reflecting on the importance of mental health for U.S. veterans. This is a topic I am deeply passionate about. During my graduate studies, I completed my practicum at U.S. VETS: Outside the Wire, where I worked with student veterans attending local colleges and unhoused veteran
Matthew Herrera
Jul 57 min read


Therapy for Fathers: Why Taking Care of Yourself Is One of the Best Things You Can Do for Your Family
Fatherhood can be meaningful, exhausting, and emotionally complicated. This article explores why fathers’ mental health matters, how anxiety and burnout show up in dads, and how therapy can help fathers feel more grounded, connected, and supported. Therapy for Fathers, Dads, and Men Navigating Anxiety, Burnout, and Family Stress Fatherhood can be deeply meaningful, identity-shaping, and life-giving. It can also be exhausting. Many fathers are balancing careers, parenting, rel
Matthew Herrera
Jun 127 min read


Men's Therapy Pasadena, CA: Why So Many Men Struggle in Silence
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), men account for nearly 80% of all suicide deaths in the United States, despite representing roughly half of the population (CDC, 2025). Why More Men Are Seeking Therapy in Pasadena, CA June is Men's Mental Health Month, a time dedicated to raising awareness about the unique emotional and psychological challenges men face. As a therapist, one of the most common things I hear from male clients is some version of
Matthew Herrera
Jun 24 min read


Mental Health Awareness Month: Why Social Media Should Not Replace Therapy
Mental Health Awareness Month is a great time to understand the importance of seeking professional help rather than turning to social media The Risks of Using TikTok and Instagram as Mental Health Treatment Instead of Professional Psychotherapy May is Mental Health Awareness Month, a time dedicated to increasing awareness, reducing stigma, and encouraging people to seek support for emotional and psychological struggles. Over the past several years, conversations about mental
Matthew Herrera
May 185 min read


OCD Therapy Pasadena, CA: Noah Kahan, Intrusive Thoughts, and the Hidden Reality of High-Functioning Anxiety
Understanding Intrusive Thoughts, Delayed OCD Diagnosis, and Effective OCD Therapy in Pasadena, CA When singer-songwriter Noah Kahan recently opened up about being diagnosed with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) at age 28, his story resonated with many people who have quietly struggled with intrusive thoughts, anxiety, shame, and compulsive behaviors for years without understanding what was happening. In a recent Los Angeles Times opinion article, writer Lisa McCarty explo
Matthew Herrera
May 184 min read


Complex PTSD (C-PTSD): Signs, Symptoms, and Effective Trauma Therapy in Pasadena, CA
Complex PTSD therapy can help you regulate your emotions, improve relationships, and help you feel more like yourself again. What Is Complex PTSD (C-PTSD)? Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD) is a condition associated with chronic or repeated trauma, particularly in relational environments where a person did not feel safe, supported, or able to leave. This can include experiences such as childhood emotional neglect, ongoing abuse, or long-term exposure to high-str
Matthew Herrera
Apr 284 min read


Men’s Mental Health & Relationships: Why Emotional Presence Is the New Standard
Therapy for Men and Couples in Pasadena, CA Why Emotional Presence Matters in Modern Relationships There was a time when men were expected to be providers, problem-solvers, and emotionally reserved. Being distant wasn’t questioned—it was often normalized. That expectation is changing. Today, relationships require more than showing up physically or providing stability. Partners are asking for something deeper: emotional presence, communication, and the ability to stay engaged
Matthew Herrera
Apr 213 min read


Therapy for Creatives: Perfectionism, OCD, and Burnout in Creative Work
I recently had the opportunity to join Richard Aguila on Private Practice, Practically for a conversation about something I care deeply about: the mental health challenges facing creatives, artists, and entertainment professionals. In the interview, we explored how perfectionism, OCD, burnout, trauma, and nervous system dysregulation can show up in creative work. For many musicians, writers, performers, screenwriters, and other artists, creativity is not separate from identi
Matthew Herrera
Mar 194 min read


Holiday Boundaries: Because Protecting Your Sanity Is the Reason for the Season
Embrace the holiday spirit and manage stress by creating beautiful festive arrangements, bringing joy and tranquility to the season. Ah, the holidays ... that magical time of year when twinkling lights glow, cookies appear everywhere, and every family member transforms into a part-time event coordinator who needs to know exactly what time you’re arriving and what dish you will be bringing three weeks in advance. The holidays are also the season when your calendar fills up
Matthew Herrera
Nov 23, 20253 min read


How Men’s Mental Health and Suicide Risk Connect: Lessons from Marshawn Kneeland
After Marshawn Kneeland’s death, men’s mental health and suicide risk must be addressed. Learn warning signs, risk factors, and how to support high-achieving men. The Tragedy of Marshawn Kneeland At just 24 years old and days after scoring a touchdown, Dallas Cowboys defensive end Marshawn Kneeland died by an apparent self-inflicted gunshot wound following a police pursuit (Reuters, 2025) . According to reporting, his girlfriend had alerted authorities that he was armed, had
Matthew Herrera
Nov 13, 20253 min read


Frequently Asked Questions About Teen Therapy
1. How do I know if my teen needs therapy? Look for warning signs such as withdrawal, irritability, low motivation, or academic decline....
Matthew Herrera
Aug 20, 20251 min read


The Benefits of Teen Therapy in Pasadena | Support for Adolescents & Parents
If you are concerned about your teen's well-being, or a teen wondering how therapy could help, do not hesitate to reach out. Adolescence...
Matthew Herrera
Aug 20, 20253 min read


How Mental Health Treatment Empowers Artists, Actors, Musicians & Writers
The Unique Mental Health Challenges Facing Creative Professionals Mental health treatment is not a detour. Rather, it is the foundation...
Matthew Herrera
Aug 10, 20253 min read


The Healing Power of Brainspotting in Therapy
Brainspotting can be used to help unlock Deeper Healing, Creativity, and Clarity I recently had the opportunity to attend a workshop led...
Matthew Herrera
Jul 28, 20252 min read


The Transformative Power of Mental Health: A Reflection on Miley Cyrus’ Journey
“I’m sober, and it’s not because I have a problem with alcohol. It’s just because I love clarity.” Miley Cyrus, 2025 In a recent...
Matthew Herrera
Jun 11, 20253 min read


Resilience in a Cutthroat Industry: Mental Health Tools for Actors, Writers, and Crew
In the Entertainment Industry , where casting calls, production meetings, and creative hustle are daily norms, mental health challenges ...
Matthew Herrera
May 30, 20253 min read


Staying Grounded During a Period of Uncertainty: Mental Health Tools for Entertainment Professionals
Mental Health in the Entertainment Industry: Navigating Job Scarcity and Uncertainty The entertainment industry is experiencing a period...
Matthew Herrera
May 20, 20254 min read


Navigating Political Stress and Mental Health: Managing Anxiety in a Polarized World
Understanding the Impact of Politics on Mental Health In 2025 and beyond, political stress and anxiety are becoming increasingly...
Matthew Herrera
Feb 5, 20253 min read
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